soap opera

hobobuster · Post by **hobobuster** » Thu Feb 07, 2008 6:43 pm

hehe lol i know that, but i thought he was saying he would tell philtom to go ahead and add me as a mod... heheheh do you think i should make a poll asking wether people think i could be a moddy?

lol i dont wanna sound retarded... er... hope thats not too late

Evai · Post by **Evai** » Thu Feb 07, 2008 6:45 pm

3 mods for 5-7 active users is a bit much...

hobobuster · Post by **hobobuster** » Thu Feb 07, 2008 6:53 pm

heh yeah i didnt expect to become a mod yet... i mean i would love to, but its completely unexpected lol.

im patient enough for asdf to wait.

Post by **CX gamer** » Thu Feb 07, 2008 8:09 pm

I fooled you good tough... Waw... Only if I were admin... O_o
Maybe if I stay on this forum for another 5 years... I have a dream...

Tom · Post by **Tom** » Fri Feb 08, 2008 4:01 am

Peemore wrote:
Tom wrote:I wouldn't worry about it man, the only thing that is making you feel that way is the sex appeal.
thats funny because thats definitely NOT what it is.. this is the first time i can say that i would still like her just as much if she were a wookie. ha, i donno guys thanks for the support though.

You may really believe that, and I know that I probably won't change your opinion on anything, and she may actually be an exception; but in almost every single situation, if sex appeal wasn't involved, another guy would always be better to hang around with than a girl. Guys have more similar interests, and can always relate better to each other. The only real reasons why a guy would choose a girl to hang out with instead of a guy are: you were raised with her/are family with her; you are sexually attracted to her, which often causes a disillusioned state of a 'great' friendship; and she is actually more fun to hang around with than any other guy, which is very rare. A combination of the latter, which can only be effectively discovered at a later age, (I assume you are 15 or so) means that you should marry her. But that probably isn't the case right now, it's just sex appeal; it always is just sex appeal. The sooner you realize that the less it will hurt when girls reject you or something, and the easier it will become to just have fun with girls for what they are.

randall5150 · Post by **randall5150** » Fri Feb 08, 2008 6:59 am

That may be true for you but for many people out there sex appeal is just a bonus. I know this one girl that I would give anything to hang out with no matter what she looked like. I guarantee theirs a ton of people like that too.

Post by **CX gamer** » Fri Feb 08, 2008 9:31 am

The female sex-appeal is just how the man decides how well her body is build for carrying babies... This is far less with the outlooks of males but still...
Another fact is that the two partners are attracted to a person who has antibodies that you don't have, for creating a baby with both...
Most important is the health of the partner, how healthier, how better...
Plastic surgery can fool some of this, but the inner self cannot be changed...

hobobuster · Post by **hobobuster** » Fri Feb 08, 2008 2:49 pm

yeah, my gf and i have been together for two months, thats it. im 17, and still a virgin, but i dont even want to see her as a sexual objet. i love just being with her, spending time with her, and of course the make out session

lol

i mean, i cant get enough of her, shes all i ever want to see. we have slept together but never had sex. by sleep i mean litterally sleep. we lay in my or her bed and cuddle and fall asleep together... hehehe shes warm

anyways, i think nowadays its girls wwho are looking for more sex appeal lately... guys are starting to go sensitive side, which is very good i think...

Peemore · Post by **Peemore** » Fri Feb 08, 2008 4:29 pm

Tom wrote:
Peemore wrote:
Tom wrote:I wouldn't worry about it man, the only thing that is making you feel that way is the sex appeal.
thats funny because thats definitely NOT what it is.. this is the first time i can say that i would still like her just as much if she were a wookie. ha, i donno guys thanks for the support though.
You may really believe that, and I know that I probably won't change your opinion on anything, and she may actually be an exception; but in almost every single situation, if sex appeal wasn't involved, another guy would always be better to hang around with than a girl. Guys have more similar interests, and can always relate better to each other. The only real reasons why a guy would choose a girl to hang out with instead of a guy are: you were raised with her/are family with her; you are sexually attracted to her, which often causes a disillusioned state of a 'great' friendship; and she is actually more fun to hang around with than any other guy, which is very rare. A combination of the latter, which can only be effectively discovered at a later age, (I assume you are 15 or so) means that you should marry her. But that probably isn't the case right now, it's just sex appeal; it always is just sex appeal. The sooner you realize that the less it will hurt when girls reject you or something, and the easier it will become to just have fun with girls for what they are.

i see where your coming from. dont take this the wrong way but you dont really know me. i dont mean that in a rude way, im just saying that while what you said accurately applies to most people these days, it doesnt apply to everyone. the thing i love about devyn is that we can hang out and simply sit in her bed for 10 hours straight doing nothing but talking and we will have a BLAST. we are just so fun together, its nothing to do with sex appeal. the friend of ours that introduced us says we are twins. while we dont have TOO much in common, our personalities are practically identical and so we get along really well. We would be perfect together.

hobobuster · Post by **hobobuster** » Fri Feb 08, 2008 5:11 pm

Peemore wrote:
Tom wrote:
Peemore wrote:
Tom wrote:I wouldn't worry about it man, the only thing that is making you feel that way is the sex appeal.
thats funny because thats definitely NOT what it is.. this is the first time i can say that i would still like her just as much if she were a wookie. ha, i donno guys thanks for the support though.
You may really believe that, and I know that I probably won't change your opinion on anything, and she may actually be an exception; but in almost every single situation, if sex appeal wasn't involved, another guy would always be better to hang around with than a girl. Guys have more similar interests, and can always relate better to each other. The only real reasons why a guy would choose a girl to hang out with instead of a guy are: you were raised with her/are family with her; you are sexually attracted to her, which often causes a disillusioned state of a 'great' friendship; and she is actually more fun to hang around with than any other guy, which is very rare. A combination of the latter, which can only be effectively discovered at a later age, (I assume you are 15 or so) means that you should marry her. But that probably isn't the case right now, it's just sex appeal; it always is just sex appeal. The sooner you realize that the less it will hurt when girls reject you or something, and the easier it will become to just have fun with girls for what they are.
i see where your coming from. dont take this the wrong way but you dont really know me. i dont mean that in a rude way, im just saying that while what you said accurately applies to most people these days, it doesnt apply to everyone. the thing i love about devyn is that we can hang out and simply sit in her bed for 10 hours straight doing nothing but talking and we will have a BLAST. we are just so fun together, its nothing to do with sex appeal. the friend of ours that introduced us says we are twins. while we dont have TOO much in common, our personalities are practically identical and so we get along really well. We would be perfect together.

exactly! thats the same deal going on with michele and i.

and this is odd, but i thought id point out that we are on page three, and still on topic! WAY TO GO peemore!

Peemore · Post by **Peemore** » Fri Feb 08, 2008 5:28 pm

w00t! on topic still!

... wait, does this celebration count as off-topic?

EDIT: uhh.. yeah devyns the shit. haha and thats cool that you and michelle are the same way. (im not sure if i spelled her name right)

hobobuster · Post by **hobobuster** » Fri Feb 08, 2008 5:29 pm

it doesnt if you still include something on topic in your post! EDIT!!!!!

heheh and so how are things going now ith you and her? i mean, ur still talking to her right?

Peemore · Post by **Peemore** » Fri Feb 08, 2008 5:36 pm

we talk on the phone about an hour a day now. we USED to talk about six hours a day though haha. oh and were hanging out today and sunday. so yeah were still great friends, i just wish it could be something more.

and oh oh oh! we have this really weird inside joke thingy where we say mean things to eachother in front of people but it really means nice things, right? well yesterday she told me that she likes to beat me in the face with a baseball bat. that means she likes when i hold her. but i told her it isnt fair for her to say that to me.

hobobuster · Post by **hobobuster** » Fri Feb 08, 2008 5:40 pm

lol omg i love it. we have things like that too.

like one time we were in front of my dad and shes like "you really are the dork of a lifetime arent you? i mean, seriously you should probably hide your face in a bag" but actually, that meant "your such a cutie and so much fun, and we will be together forever. and i dont want anyone to see you cuz then they might steal you away from me"

hehe my dAd got a kick outa that. and yeah, that means shes way into you.... inside jokes like that are a definitely good sign of that.

and yeah, its Michele (1 'l')

Peemore · Post by **Peemore** » Fri Feb 08, 2008 5:47 pm

haha. thats so weird, i thought devyn and i were the only ones who would do something as ridiculous as that.

when we were on the phone yesterday her boyfriend would call and she would tell me she would call me back, right? well i would get a call back in about 30 seconds and then 5 minutes later he would call her again. once again, she called me back in less than a minute. then he called AGAIN. finally she was like, "WHAT IS THIS KIDS PROBLEM??" and she didnt answer. haha i got a kick outta that.

hobobuster · Post by **hobobuster** » Fri Feb 08, 2008 5:52 pm

omg lol thats awesome. yeah srsly theres no way shes not into you.

i mean, no girl would unanswer her boyfriend if it wasnt for her liking whoever it is shes talking to more....

srsly, good job

Peemore · Post by **Peemore** » Fri Feb 08, 2008 6:00 pm

F*CK yeah dude. haha.

but hmm.. i want to be with her on valentines day... her boyfriend is out of state and so i dont think she will be with him. but... im kind of nervous about it because that is so obviously crossing the 'friends' line.

hobobuster · Post by **hobobuster** » Fri Feb 08, 2008 6:02 pm

just ask her. if she says no she says no. dont rush it, but still show your interest

Peemore · Post by **Peemore** » Fri Feb 08, 2008 6:05 pm

yeah. should i txt her? or wait until i can call her?

hobobuster · Post by **hobobuster** » Fri Feb 08, 2008 6:08 pm

call her, but if you can, talk to her in person. thats the best way to go about it, showing your sincere and honest, and not afraid to talk to her